“She fought her battles the best she could & she wears her scars as wings”
— Kayla Hayes

About Kayla Hayes

Kayla Hayes is 25 years old and an advocate, speaker and author. She rose like an angel and walked away from a past filled with childhood sexual abuse and teenage domestic violence. The tragedies she endured stole her identity, her self-worth, and her confidence. She had two choices: succumb to them or rise from them. Kayla chose to rise — and wear her scars as wings.


She Rises

Overcoming Sexual Abuse & Domestic Violence

Next Generation Indie Book Awards Winner, 2022


As a child, Kayla Hayes was sexually abused. She experienced unhealed hurts and self-hate. That led her to an abusive boyfriend who bit off 85% of her lip. While healing, Kayla made the decision to rise — and wear her scars as wings. She partnered with author Alisa Divine, to tell her story and provide this handbook for healing.

What People Are Saying

"I love Kayla's transparency and vulnerability. It is because of these two things that her story reaches so many and that she is able to advocate! I read through this book quickly. At some moments horrified by what she has gone through. She truly is an example of God giving beauty for ashes. She continues to rise from the ashes like a majestic phoenix turning her pain into power. Her heart is revealed through the pages. She is so genuine. Buy this book!"

— Karlee G.

"I would recommend this book to anybody. Not only people who have experienced DV, but to anybody in a relationship. Use the tools provided in the second half of the book to improve your relationship and make yourself a better partner."


— Zinger

“As a fellow survivor-turned-advocate, I cannot stress how important it is that everyone grabs this book now & gives it a read. Then share it with your daughters, your students, your friends, your neighbors.... Kayla is an inspiration and the words she and Alisa brought to life are magically motivating. I’m so moved by this book.”

— Shelby S.

FAQs

  • Domestic violence refers to a pattern of abusive behavior used by one partner to gain or maintain control over another partner in an intimate relationship. It can include physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or financial abuse.

  • Signs of domestic violence can include:

    • Physical signs: Bruises, cuts, or other injuries.

    • Emotional signs: Constant criticism, belittling, or threats.

    • Behavioral signs: Isolation from friends and family, monitoring your activities, or controlling your finances.

  • If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency number. If you cannot speak freely, try to communicate discreetly or use a text-based service if available.


  • Resources can include:

    • Hotlines: National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) or local helplines.

    • Shelters: Safe houses or shelters for temporary housing.

    • Counseling and support groups: Professional help for emotional support.

    • Legal aid: Assistance with obtaining restraining orders or other legal matters.

  • Support your loved one by:

    • Listening: Offer a non-judgmental ear and validate their feelings.

    • Providing resources: Share information about local shelters, hotlines, and support services.

    • Safety planning: Help them create a safety plan.

    • Encouraging professional help: Suggest counseling or legal assistance.

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  • Stay Kind. Stay Strong. Rise Above.

    KH

Resources:

For emergencies, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline.